If you haven't read the thread in General, you may not know what this is about. Although, it may be for the better to get opinions on this one, isolated incident. It's your choice to check it out first or not. I'm open to all questions, comments, ect... Just be honest (and blunt, if need be). husband calls me this morning and asks me to check his account as he had just bought gas and dinner and put them on his card. I check and there's, like, $58 in there. I, annoyingly, add $50 from my account and ask him what he did with his money (He gets over $400 every friday). He hesitates... husband "what?" ME "I said what did you do with all of YOUR money???" husband "it went to various vendors" ME "ok. $100 to your mom for daycare" husband "$120. difficult child was there a few days, too" ME "and the rest?" husband "i'm not gonna sit here and itemize what i did with every penny! i gotta go" ME "fine" husband "bye. love you" ME "(mumble mumble)" husband "what?" ME "i said, i love you. bye" husband "bye" Let the opinions begin.