Why is it that my difficult child thinks everything she says and does is forgotten the minute she decides its doesn't matter anymore? Seriously the kid thinks she can do and say anything and it should just disappear into a cloud of dust the minute she is done with it. On the other hand anything I do or say can and will be held against me in the court of difficult child. After difficult child's lovely text messaging incident yesterday she cornered me at home and basically told me I was being irritable and I was the problem and none of it is her. She wants to feel welcome in the home, she wants us to tell her to stay, she wants us to bend over and take it up the rear anytime she feels like it and then have us forget about it as soon as she is over her drama. The text messages started again this morning with....why didn't you leave the car? Why are you acting mad? Why cant you just forget it I did? I told her to read the messages she sent me yesterday and remember that this is not the first time I have heard all this. My decision is to take a step back and get my bearings and see how I feel about dealing with her when I am ready. It's not like she is 2yrs old and needs constant care. She is 19 if I need a break for a day or two I can take one!