I have a four year old whom we have adopted she was exposed to crack and other street drugs pre-natal. she is bright and very quick to learn however we have sessions of absolute rage. for example my husband read to her and prayed with her (reuglar routine) she came and got a drink and then went back to her bedroom. all of a sudden I heard her crying and talking to herself. When I went to check she started screaming at me i don't want your help. she was making her bed which was already made at one point. I honored her wishes and didn't help then she started screaming again, about the blankets but again didn't want any help. finally I told her to climb into my bed and she now is sleeping. These rage sessions come totally unannounced, sock that are not the same height asking her to put on her coat, things that shouldn't upset her. But they do. Please any help at all will be appreciated