i am needing some advice, my 14 year old son is living with my mother after I got engaged after dating a guy for a month. We had set a date for a year later wanting to give enough time for our kids to adjust.. his kids were wanting us married ASAP, my son moved out. Since he has moved out, my fiance was put in jail for driving without a license.. my son gave me an ultimatum of its either my fiance or him. My fiance has done nothing to my child and wants to adopt him and truely loves both my son and I unconditionally. My son has a history of physically assulting me and has done so recently in trying to make this situation normal. I havn't take it up with authorities but have told him he needs serious help and we need counseling, and he needs to come home.. or we need to take him to some sort of facility. He refuses to talk or see me and some ppl I talk to advice to give him space and time anothers say take action.. what is ur advice?