SA Family could you please send supportive vibes my way?

Discussion in 'Substance Abuse' started by DDD, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    It is not a crisis.....not like it used to be when on my knees I prayed and begged, lol. on the other hand, tomorrow is going to be a stressful day for me as I attempt to negotiate a home purchase contract for difficult child#1. We "found" the house today and difficult child, husband, difficult child;s girlfriend and I are hyped up. It's a long drawn out story on why getting to contract is going to be hard but I need to bring my strongest business head and creative self to the day. I'm pooped, lol, and not confident I can pull it off. I'd appreciate family support. DDD
  2. klmno

    klmno Active Member

    Wow! What a big step! Is he able to take responsibility for a house and pay all the bills? I'm sure he's very excited! You know buying a house is always stressful and without knowing your mitigating circumstances, I'm sure this is more stressful than typical.....I'll keep fingers crossed for you and him and look forward to hearing how it turns out!
  3. Nancy

    Nancy Well-Known Member Staff Member

    You got it DDD, sending good thoughts your way. You can do it, you are a good businesswoman. I'm hoping tomorrow night is celebration time.

  4. Signorina

    Signorina Guest

  5. Tiredof33

    Tiredof33 Active Member

    Good vibes and best wishes.........
  6. Calamity Jane

    Calamity Jane Well-Known Member

    You're Mama - you can do anything!! Really, truly sending supportive vibes, DDD.
  7. exhausted

    exhausted Active Member

    Im late DDD but I hope it went well and I always have you in my prayers. I hope the best thing happens for you all. Sending super vibes to the universe!
  8. Marcie Mac

    Marcie Mac Just Plain Ole Tired

    Sending you all of the positive JuJu I can muster DDD :)

  9. Ephchap

    Ephchap Active Member

    Count me in. Sending lots of positive thoughts, my friend.

  10. DammitJanet

    DammitJanet Well-Known Member Staff Member

    fingers crossed
  11. everywoman

    everywoman Active Member

    Prayers for you.
  12. PatriotsGirl

    PatriotsGirl Guest

    You got it!!!
  13. Kathy813

    Kathy813 Well-Known Member Staff Member

    I don't know how I missed this last night. I am crossing fingers and toes and sending positive energy that it goes well today!!!

  14. pinevalley

    pinevalley Member

    I'm also sending you supportive vibes today. You are a real warrior mom & I am positive that you can do it!
  15. SuZir

    SuZir Well-Known Member

    Good vibes coming to that way!
  16. lovemysons

    lovemysons Well-Known Member

    Hi DDD,

    You have my hopes, prayers, positive vibes and all good things rooting for you today.
    If ANYONE can pull it off...It's YOU!

  17. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Lots of good vibes coming your way............
  18. busywend

    busywend Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Sending good vibes your way...although I have no doubt that YOU can do anything! So, I am sure this will turn out just fine. Super exciting for difficult child 1!!!
  19. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Had the Realtor write up the offer this afternoon. Should hear back tomorrow if it's accepted. I expect it will be but THEN the fun begins trying to get the right financing and inspections etc. Believe me the whole deal is complicated but I am keeping up my confidence that I CAN get a house for difficult child#1. The house is a 2/2 with a deep attached one car garage (room for laundry equipment) and it has the remote control that difficult child#1 loves at my house. It has over 1800 sq. ft, a LR with dining area adjacent to the kitchen and THEN :) a family room that is open access from the kitchen with a counter top. (LOL...not granite but nice) PLUS there is an enclosed screen porch off the family room.

    I offered under forty for it. Oh yeah, it has a well/sprinkler system and the yard is 80 x 125. I know I found a fantastic deal. I hope I can sleep tonight as I only caught about five hours last night working out contingency clauses. I hope husband and Ace leave me alone tonight I'm hyper and exhausted at the same time. DDD
  20. Kathy813

    Kathy813 Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Great update. I'll keep my fingers crossed that things work out for your difficult child.
    Last edited: Sep 27, 2012