He's my ultra-religious son who decided God is his family, not us. None of us have heard from in about a year and he doesn't return calls. I keep trying, but I don't really feel like it anymore. He knows I'm here and will accept him back into the family, but he doesn't care. This may sound callous, but I don't even CARE that much anymore. We've all adjusted to life without him, and I have a grandson due any day. My focus has been on my four kids who want to be around me and my grandson-to-be. This wayward son has never fought with anyone in the family, just decided to stay apart. He is 30 years old already, not a kid. Should I bother sending a card? WWYD?