daughter & sister in law have two boys 20 & 16 who have Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS). Both these boys masturbate...and I know that is not horrendous or unusual. But daughter tells me the 16-year old sneaks anything nylon out of her bedroom and she later finds it "after the deed" stuffed under his bed or stashed elsewhere. Does anyone have any suggestions about how this should/could be handled? I told you it was "sensitive"!! Anyone with special needs kids who have encountered this? TIA!