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toughlovin
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Ugh. It probably doesnt help that my husband is away so he cant listen to all my little introspections and worries!!! Yesterday there was nothing from my difficult child on his FB page....after skyping I felt connected and hoped that although it was hard we would keep a connection. Silly me. So last night finally he posts on his FB page "Reaching out for help and nothing". My heart sank and I thought oh he is really looking for help and not finding it? He is in a place where there are some really good services for homeless youth and he has accessed them and that has given me some hope that he will sort things out somehow.
So I messaged him "What kind of help are you reaching out for". Definitely leaving myself open and a little nervous what he would then ask me for but gosh I really wanted to know what kind of help he was looking for.
He did answer me which is good... one word and nothing more. "Food".
Oh yeah so he is begging on the streets. Ugh. No more connection. nothing. I have a friend where he is that I have told him about.... he can call her and she would take him out for a meal. He is choosing not to do that which is fine and his choice. But he is not completely helpless. I think this is just his way on FB of trying to gather sympathy..... and of course the only one who responds is his mother. LOL.
It is so sad!!! And I just have to let it be.
TL
So I messaged him "What kind of help are you reaching out for". Definitely leaving myself open and a little nervous what he would then ask me for but gosh I really wanted to know what kind of help he was looking for.
He did answer me which is good... one word and nothing more. "Food".
Oh yeah so he is begging on the streets. Ugh. No more connection. nothing. I have a friend where he is that I have told him about.... he can call her and she would take him out for a meal. He is choosing not to do that which is fine and his choice. But he is not completely helpless. I think this is just his way on FB of trying to gather sympathy..... and of course the only one who responds is his mother. LOL.
It is so sad!!! And I just have to let it be.
TL