Last night we went rounds over hair washing not normally a problem but it was last night took two trips to the bathroom and a third trip with me washing her hair and French braiding. She told me the reason she didn't want to wash her hair is because I told her to do it. Fast forward this morning. I was recovering from being up with baby all night we mr Lewis and I were laying on bed and I was feeding him. Tk asked if she could go to friends house said she was getting dressed said bye mom an raced down stairs. Get a call two hours later friend's mom is sending her home cause she has blue in her hair. Wasn't too upset just shook head because this is tk getting me back for her hair being washed. Was planning on washing it and sending her to bedroom for a time out. She walks in, pj pants and shirt a robe and her coat. (We were going to go back to the park today but it never warmed up) So she left the house in pj's robe and coat. All the way to the other side of our housing circle. And chilled there for two hours. While I was washing her hair she said she did it to punish me. Trying to figure out why I deserve to be punished as yesterday she got to do her lemonade stand and we went to the park the day before we spent all day in kitchen baking which is her thing and had spend the night company. Sigh.