that my son told the truth about the nights out all night (well, enough of the truth that I could put 2 and 2 together) and the drugs and so forth, and that this whole thing really hasn't been a charade to cover a blooming situation of having sex with an 18yo confused young girl/lady in our neighborhood, that he spent an hour this evening telling me how she'd confided in him since his release that she was raped while he was in Department of Juvenile Justice and just now (at 11:20 pm) tried to call him because he texted her a few days ago and said this was his new phone number. He is supposedly in bed- he knows I'm staying up late to "guard" things and make sure he doesn't sneak out. His friend gave him a condom about a week after he was released. I think I'll ask to see that again tomorrow since he mentioned it again today. But then honestly- which situation really would be worse? He has done this kind of stupid cover-up before and keeps swearing that he thinks this drug test will come back negative. I doubt it- if he told the truth about all he did. Just answered my own question- the worst scenario would be doing both drugs and sex- without a condom.