I just need to vent. She is at it again. She took money from her dad's wallet.(why did he leave cash in his wallet??) She denied it like crazy. He got her up early this am and let her have it (rare for him). She showered and started her phone calling thing to find a place to hang. I listened in on a few (why do I do this? It only makes me feel horrid). One of the girls asked, "Hey you knwo where to get some trees don't you?" Her response, "Yes". Girl went on to complain about having to go into work or she will loose her job because she has missed so much being sick-there was a baby howling in he background and then I heard a male swearing and cussing-real class place my daughter calls. She told us she was smoking pot again once in awhile. This sounds pretty entrenched to me. People asking her where to get it. Stealing money. Lack of grooming the last week. She showers but isnt getting her hair done or makeup on. This is a rare thing for her. I told her she had to clean her room and do chores or she wasnt going anywhere. (there is no way to keep her here when she is determined, we have stopped fighting that battle) She did her chores. On her way out she went through the garage-weird so I went after her. She had keys. We dont give her a house key. I took them. It turns out she had removed the house key off of my keys. I didn't know she had time to do this between when she walked out and left. Dang! Unually I keep mine hidden just careless this morning. So hubby is getting 3 new dead bolts and rekeying the place. Yet more money. Can't call the police-they wont do anything about theft of cash, we cant prove it. She lays just below the radar of the law. Will it ever end. I jjust want off the roller coaster soooo bad. I'm tired and hasn't God given me enough hell. What did I do to deserve this.