Were you bullied by family even as a baby? In my family, my mother was the main bully to me and my sister. She later renociled with Sis (never me) but the damage to us was already done. Strangely brother, who was not abused, still has had people problems. We all have. Dad was not involved enough, but in my eyes he wasnt a bully, but he didnt help. There were other bullies in FOO but none had the ability to do the damage a cold mother did. Just a vent.