if you read my previous posts you will get an idea of how the past has been with my daughter. Since my last post my granddaughter asked my daughter if we could visit her. Her mom said ‘sure’. Whatever that means we are driving 8 hours to see my granddaughter who my daughter has kept from me for 10 months now. My granddaughter is excited. My daughter has supposedly been clean from heroin for 15 months now. She had a baby two months ago and I had someone show me pics she posted on fb. The other day my 28 year old son who plays video games online with my granddaughter told me that my daughter and her current third baby daddy were in a heated screaming match that my son could vividly hear. My granddaughter seemed unfazed by the hour long drama. I suppose after all she has been thru it’s just another day. My daughter and her boyfriend both recovering heroin addicts were screaming and dropping the F bomb tons of times. Apparently the boyfriend has an STD and my daughter was telling him to get the F out. Threatening to call the police. He was cursing and screaming back. Then the newborn starts screaming as well. My son said that my daughter was then crying real hard and wanted her phone back and told him she wouldn’t tell the police he hit her. In 2017 they had several big fights and she was on heroin and had him falsely arrested when she nodded and bumped her head. He spent a month twice in jail. But he went back with her and they now have a baby. My friends say to mind my own business. That it will only backfire on me to get involved. I don’t have their address to send CPS there. I messaged my oldest granddaughters other grandmother and she saw her today at her hockey game and said she was happy and positive. She didn’t seem concerned at all. She has not been a big part of her life until this lady year as her son overdosed and died right with my granddaughter there from heroin. Now my granddaughter lives near her with my crazy daughter. Doesn’t that crazy addict behavior stop when they are clean ? She loves the drama. These two have it a lot. Should I just stay out of it ? Just keep praying that my granddaughter doesn’t become a crazy mental basketcase drug addict someday like my daughter. I feel so helpless. Just glad we can finally see her in two weeks. Not sure I care to see my daughter after all she has done for the last 17 years though. Any advice ?