My X has just e-mailed to ask if he can come to visit our daughter. It's been years. He has been manic, paranoid, self-absorbed, self-destructive. He's left us alone, thankfully. Last fall he was hospitalized, institutionalized, medicated, stablized, got on SSDI, and is doing much better. Now he wants to see my (his) 10yo. I'm not sure what to do. I really don't want to open this can of worms. My daughter is in a good place now. But the memories she does have of him are not good. It took a long time to get her to a good place. How do I handle this? I'm still trying to process it all.