mog
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UGH!! we have been fighting for so long about him getting SSI and now that he was told that he "won" his settlement but we have to wait for the official decision I am really worried. My husband has been drinking a lot now and then with my brother who was also deciding what he wanted to do now. So my husband went with my brother to set him up at his new place and was sad since he is no longer close by to hang out. husband started drinking a lot more than usual and I have slowed down considerably. When difficult child came home i did not drink at all well actually before he came home I had not had anything for a while because my niece is quitting and I was trying to support her too. Anyway yesterday he had so much he could not walk so tonight I asked if we could talk about it and he got mad because he said i was yelling and when I calming showed him that I was not it made him more agitated and he threw his cane. When I calmly tried to point this out he started yelling at me that I did not understand how he was no longer a man. I tried to tell him that he is still the most important MAN in all of our lives and it just made him more angry.. Every time that I try to talk to him it just makes him more angry. I feel like he is using this to have an excuse to leave me.
I dont know anymore what the heck is going on.I am so overwhelmed i do not know what direction to go
I dont know anymore what the heck is going on.I am so overwhelmed i do not know what direction to go