I am wondering what a normal, healthy relationship with one's cousins are suppose to look like? Do you only see each other on holidays and special occasions? When you do see each other, is it just polite and short chit chat or does your relationship/conversations go deeper than that, even if it's just a smidge deeper, meaning do you talk to them outside of special occasions and holidays? Do you all keep in touch? Do they let you know what's going on in their lives and vice versa? How close are you? I have no idea what real relationships with cousins is suppose to be like. Last but not least, what do you think a normal relationship with a cousin should be like?