My difficult child lost his cell phone because he texted another kid at school not knowing that the Principal had this kid's phone in his desk, then procedded to say it wasnt him. When the Pricipal asked what his cell # was he lied & gave a friends # of course the Principal already had the ph that my son called so he was able to verify that the call came from my son. He also taking to disrespecting his teacher in public & in class, the eye rolls , not doing his work disrupting the class. He is getting detention & has been sent to work on his own. Previous to this he was investigated by Police for supposedly harrassing girls at school fortunately the police decided that the girls were exaggerating their complaint because one was mad at difficult child for being with anohter girl, yet some of the texting between the kids was quite inappropiate. I have taken away his phone, but this has been done before & usually backfires because he will take off with out letting us know where he is & of course his friends lie saying they do not know where he is. My difficult child does not listen to reason feels it is perfectly ok to cuss out his parents and lie. We tried therapists but none of them can agree, difficult child will not partipcate so therapist leave up to me to come up with some form of punsihment that will effect him, to date i have found nothing that works. Everyday is a battle with him.