This might not be of much help, but I was wondering if they had looked into Bellin Psychiatric in Greenbay? Might be an option. My son was there for an 11 day stay... this was when he was at the age of seven. Although it was not as helpful as I would have hoped for him, all kids are different. I was wondering if the county had a crisis line? They've probably already been there done that, just a suggestion. I've had to call it a few times when my son was in an uncontrollable, violent rage. Wish I had more to offer, yes, this is a hard state to get help in, I agree. It is so frustrating. Thought I would add this... Medical Assistance paid for all ER, and Psychiatric stays. I hope and wish for the best for your friend and her son!