My adult son comitted fraud and stole a large amount of money from the sale of my mother's car when he came to help me days before she died. He has disappeared and left me to explain to both family and non family members about the theft. I am being accused of allowing this thievery. He has repeatedly left me facing the consequences of his deceiftful behavior around money. We have lived in seperate states and with many years of alanon under my belt I thought some of this was behind us. Clearly in the midst of grief and sheer chaos during the difficult passing of my mother my son took this opportunity to cash in.