Hi,
I am relieved that the worst day is over and both you and Cory are safe. Your profile shows you have 2 great kids, in my humble opinion I think they should be the ones in speaking contact, phoe ,visits etc or husband. I think , contact between you and him should be only through letters. There is too much emotional baggage. A third party needs to help him cool down and come up with a plan that gives him a future , that means he getting you on his side. At the moment , he couldn't care what happens to himself , only getting at you and others he blames for his problems.
Sending prayers and positive thoughts in your direction
Allan