Update (venting)
AAaarrrggghhh! Ok, so I sent in a letter to everyone involved with this case and told them that a single parent could not possible accomplish everything they wanted me to do- I am already overloaded with just dealing with work, and the other difficult childs problems, yada-yada, so they can go ahead and find a placement for difficult child 3.
Well- by golly I got some action they (the agency handling the SRS case) informed the doctor who was doing my level 3 psychological evaluation (required by same agency) prior to the test being done and I ended up with a 16 page diagnosis and recommendations to get all of my advanced and multi-phased neuroses fixed before I would be allowed to even visit with my son again (theres obviously nothing wrong with the kid of course). I gave an (explanation) response to the doctors evaluation point by point to the agency and asked about a second independent unbiased interview to be done. The agency said I had to let them talk to the second doctor before the second test that was their standard policy!
So much for the unbiased test to dispute the first doctors contaminated interview!! and my attorney now has gotten cold feet!
So I apologized for my exasperated behavior and printed off and delivered all the court journals, emails, school meetings, probation correspondence, etc. all the way back to 1989 of the families crises history (and how I handled them)- only to be told that THEY were not going to further engage in this line of arguments. Was I going to cooperate with the doctors recommend treatment plan or not? Then I find out that rookie CW is no longer with the agency- but I am still left dealing with the aftermath of her sabotaging my competency as a parent.
How am I supposed handle this now??
Well- by golly I got some action they (the agency handling the SRS case) informed the doctor who was doing my level 3 psychological evaluation (required by same agency) prior to the test being done and I ended up with a 16 page diagnosis and recommendations to get all of my advanced and multi-phased neuroses fixed before I would be allowed to even visit with my son again (theres obviously nothing wrong with the kid of course). I gave an (explanation) response to the doctors evaluation point by point to the agency and asked about a second independent unbiased interview to be done. The agency said I had to let them talk to the second doctor before the second test that was their standard policy!
So much for the unbiased test to dispute the first doctors contaminated interview!! and my attorney now has gotten cold feet!
So I apologized for my exasperated behavior and printed off and delivered all the court journals, emails, school meetings, probation correspondence, etc. all the way back to 1989 of the families crises history (and how I handled them)- only to be told that THEY were not going to further engage in this line of arguments. Was I going to cooperate with the doctors recommend treatment plan or not? Then I find out that rookie CW is no longer with the agency- but I am still left dealing with the aftermath of her sabotaging my competency as a parent.
How am I supposed handle this now??