The "woman" (now) that sexually abused my boys when they were three is back in town and back at her old job......at the only grocery store in town and where I just got a job in the deli department. She is a cashier in the area of the store that is next to where I'm at. I like my job and the people I work WITH (and finally having a paycheck after over a year) but I can't handle seeing her. She's 25 now and it happened 10 years ago. She was prosecuted but because she was a "minor" (16) all they could slap her with is probation until her 19th birthday (along with fines, etc.). She plead an Alfred plea which HOOVERS. It is not on her record and no one except those involved know about it. I don't want to quit my job (it took over a year to find one), I don't want her to come after me for saying anything to our employer and them possibly firing her (which they would do), but I can't handle seeing her. Looking at their department's schedule, she works most of the same days and shifts I do. Like this coming week, there is only 1 day where I'm there and she's not. When I see her, I my anxiety goes into action to the point that I shake noticeably (a co-worker questioned me about it). I am sooooo stuck between a rock and a hard place. I should be used to this by now since EVERY time things start going well for us, something caused by someone else ends up costing US. Why should this time be any different? Thanks for letting me vent and cry (literally) on your (virtual) shoulders. I just don't know what to do and I HATE it!!!!! There's no winning here.