I try not to get involved or care about this subject. I'm so mad right now though. He got married in Nov and spent all the gifts on stupid things, clothes, jewelry ...new phones for the both of them. But then two weeks later, couldn't pay his bills and borrowed money from us. Just for a few days, then paid us back. But seriously...they blew through all the cash right away. Now he is on his honeymoon and I know ( he told me this) he brought every last dime with him and doesn't know how he'll pay bills when he gets home. But...they don't need to worry about that, they live in the moment. He actually called me and asked me to find the best deal on UGGS for his wife for Christmas. When I did that and called him back well, he just wanted me to put it on my credit card you know, so it would be delivered here and she wouldn't see it. I told him to just put in my address. no, then 2 days later husband lent him $200. He will never pay it back, I know this, husband even knows this---and heck, free uggs for difficult child-he knows it too. Sometimes husband has him do a few hours of yardwork to make him "pay it back". Whatever "it" of the moment happens to be. I got a call this morning from a bill collector. husband owes $818 for difficult child's truck. difficult child never made a payment on his truck he bought in Nov. And now it is in collections, and since husband co-signed, husband owes the money. My credit is going to be bad now. Ok, now I just found out difficult child also put my address on is drivers license, we got all kind of ads for attorneys about a ticket he got driving in West Virginia apparently, so now his insurance will go up, but usually he doesn't pay tickets, goes to court and pays 1,000...idiot! husband is stupid also about difficult child.