easy child has always been an easy child but I put her through a lot with my alcohol addiction (I'm now in recovery and have been for years). Last October I took her on a trip to New Orleans. One night in the hotel room she let loose for two hours (and I allowed her to) about what my alcoholic ways had done to her. We made peace and enjoyed the rest of the trip. In December of 2013 we heard she was having financial difficulties so we sent her $350. She thanked us profusely. Five days later she found her biological father on Facebook (my husband raised her from 1 year old on - biological father left me when I was 3 months pregnant) and stopped speaking to us that day. God only knows what he has told her but my son, who is autistic and 18, talked to her via email a few days ago and she says I am a horrible person who did horrible things. I'm not sure what horrible things I did as she did not give specific examples but it is hurtful nonetheless. We love easy child and she has totally cut us off. She changed addresses (we think she lives only 15 minutes from us after living 3 hours from us for college), she changed phone numbers. We have no way of contacting her, except our son via email. She is still on my husband's insurance so we see her medical provider's information but we do not hear from her. Do we give her space? We cannot really reach out. We have no idea what we did to make her go so south on us.