I guess it is one of those good news bad news things. We have found someone good who can help but there is a lot of help needed. Basically, he is raising his depakote level to help with the impulse control and behavioral issues. he is hoping that it helps with his sleep and in turn helps with concentration. He gave us respidrol to hold onto in case it is needed but hope not to need it. Basiaclly, he said that the stuff going on with Sammy and me is not my fault. It is like a bad habit for him so whenever I am present he goes into this mode nd there is nothing we can do about it until we get his impulisvity under control. We hope that this will work and we go back in 3 weeks to go from there.