Kanga and Eeyore's therapist recommended that I get help for me. I'm taking her words to heart. I had a complete physical and passed with flying colors I am overweight but all my blood work is very healthy so the only recommendation was to exercise more. My doctor put me on buspar (sp?) and xanax as needed to help my stress levels. I have found a therapist in my town that specializes in grief and parenting so I hope to have an interview with her soon to see if she's a match for some therapy for me, although I still need to check my insurance to see if they cover any of it. Kanga is back in school today so it is a relief, even though Tigger is home --again.