Hi!! It's been quite awhile since I've posted and I need a little advice.
Quick update: H and I are now separated and getting a divorce. easy child lives with me with visitation to H. difficult child now has a whacked out visitation schedule between H and her BM. One month she's with H, next month she's with BM. Weekends are a rotating basis. difficult child has continued to escalate. H and BM have their heads in the sand. Since February of last year, she has: kicked our cats, left bruises on my arm trying to get me out of her room when I was putting away clothes, stolen money from both me & BM, killed a total of 5 baby birds, and is now attempting to play/start fires. She is still going to therapy, and is on Vyvanse and Zoloft.
My question is, should I be concerned about easy child's safety? I have a strong feeling that difficult child is not supervised at all when she's with H. easy child will be 6 next month. easy child is only with difficult child for a few hours during the week difficult child is at H's. I do not allow her to spend the weekends at H's when difficult child is there. (due to sleeping arrangments, not safety.)
difficult child has no remorse for anything she has done, and will lie right to your face. Her eyes have that empty look and it scares the **** out of me. She doesn't have many, if any friends either. She's very smart and very sneaky as well. I know I have no control over her, but I need to keep easy child safe.
Any advice?
Thanks,
Quick update: H and I are now separated and getting a divorce. easy child lives with me with visitation to H. difficult child now has a whacked out visitation schedule between H and her BM. One month she's with H, next month she's with BM. Weekends are a rotating basis. difficult child has continued to escalate. H and BM have their heads in the sand. Since February of last year, she has: kicked our cats, left bruises on my arm trying to get me out of her room when I was putting away clothes, stolen money from both me & BM, killed a total of 5 baby birds, and is now attempting to play/start fires. She is still going to therapy, and is on Vyvanse and Zoloft.
My question is, should I be concerned about easy child's safety? I have a strong feeling that difficult child is not supervised at all when she's with H. easy child will be 6 next month. easy child is only with difficult child for a few hours during the week difficult child is at H's. I do not allow her to spend the weekends at H's when difficult child is there. (due to sleeping arrangments, not safety.)
difficult child has no remorse for anything she has done, and will lie right to your face. Her eyes have that empty look and it scares the **** out of me. She doesn't have many, if any friends either. She's very smart and very sneaky as well. I know I have no control over her, but I need to keep easy child safe.
Any advice?
Thanks,