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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: KFld</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I am alone and I know I need to do this.
I'm kind of scared that it's hitting me all at once, but I know I have to do this. </div></div>
Hi! You're NOT alone. We're here, and your Mom is there. Feel the sense of her in the room and know that her strength is there to support you. All those pieces came together for a reason, and she's there in spirit. :angel:
Allow yourself the luxury of a good cry, yell and holler if you want to. You've been injured spiritually and emotionally. Mourning is hard enough without someone injecting betrayal as well.
If you're so inclined, get yourself a pint of Haagen Daz, get a really good movie and cry through those too. Enjoy the fact that you CAN and without an audience. Don't let anyone tell you not to cry and get over it. You will when you will, but you <u>will</u> get through it and believe you me, you're a great person now, but you'll be a better person for having dealt with the experiences.
Let us know how you're doing through the course of the evening...we're all here for you!
Beth
I am alone and I know I need to do this.
I'm kind of scared that it's hitting me all at once, but I know I have to do this. </div></div>
Hi! You're NOT alone. We're here, and your Mom is there. Feel the sense of her in the room and know that her strength is there to support you. All those pieces came together for a reason, and she's there in spirit. :angel:
Allow yourself the luxury of a good cry, yell and holler if you want to. You've been injured spiritually and emotionally. Mourning is hard enough without someone injecting betrayal as well.
If you're so inclined, get yourself a pint of Haagen Daz, get a really good movie and cry through those too. Enjoy the fact that you CAN and without an audience. Don't let anyone tell you not to cry and get over it. You will when you will, but you <u>will</u> get through it and believe you me, you're a great person now, but you'll be a better person for having dealt with the experiences.
Let us know how you're doing through the course of the evening...we're all here for you!
Beth