We wondered where difficult child was getting his money. Every time I asked him, he said, "You don't want to know. I can take care of it." Scared the h*ll out of me. Just came home a bit ago and found H's car in the driveway. I told husband to stay outside and intercept them because they like to ditch out from the back porch. But husband went inside anyway. I stood outside in the rain and saw H on the porch. "Hi. You can go out the other door so you don't get so cold." Kind of silly, but I wanted her to know that I saw her. I then walked onto the porch and she helped me carry things and was very polite. Then difficult child showed up, putting on his jacket to leave in a hurry. And a third friend came in, E, with-the rented room in another city, where everyone goes to smoke, from the direction of the laundry room. They all left. husband said when he walked in, difficult child and H were making out on the couch. I think she has no idea what's going on and she will drop him this weekend. I called him a few min ago and told him that all of dad's gold jewelry is gone. He immediately announced it to his friends in the car. I told him to get home NOW. I hung up. He called back and husband answered. He was even more firm--don't use that word with-me or I'll call the police right this instant. As it is, I will wait until you come home. That might be ... never ... I am shaking. And my heart is breaking.