JayPee
Sending good vibes...
My younger son who has ADHD and PTSD and was an avid pot smoker was volatile, mentally unstable and brought friends into our home along with girls at all hours of the night. No respect whatsoever. The police were at our home regularly.
What I can tell you is that it is not easy to put them out. My son’s behavior scared me and my husband at the time.
The only way you will have any peace is by him leaving. Our homes need to be our safe place.
It was as a very long and difficult road to finally getting him out. I am not a professional but in my opinion and experience it will be hard for you to focus on yourself with him there.
I think as suggested Al anon is a good place to start. “ Al anon is not a magic potion that will instantly cure all your ills, but a pattern of living that will serve you to exactly the degree you work it.”
Getting a healthier mindset will begin to allow you to set boundaries and keep them.
Get a good support system like Al anon, try to read books on setting boundaries with adult children, prayer and therapy if you can.
Will keep you in my prayers.
What I can tell you is that it is not easy to put them out. My son’s behavior scared me and my husband at the time.
The only way you will have any peace is by him leaving. Our homes need to be our safe place.
It was as a very long and difficult road to finally getting him out. I am not a professional but in my opinion and experience it will be hard for you to focus on yourself with him there.
I think as suggested Al anon is a good place to start. “ Al anon is not a magic potion that will instantly cure all your ills, but a pattern of living that will serve you to exactly the degree you work it.”
Getting a healthier mindset will begin to allow you to set boundaries and keep them.
Get a good support system like Al anon, try to read books on setting boundaries with adult children, prayer and therapy if you can.
Will keep you in my prayers.