We told her not to come over. I even tried to back out of Thanksgiving. N has been sick, K is getting over something, husband is sick... No way, Thanksgiving was ON. I tried to keep them away for the weekend. I said we should not be around you guys, if Greatgrandpa gets sick, bad news! mother in law and father in law are leaving Wednesday for the 2 weeks. Leaving Great Grandpa here. So of course Sunday they had to come by one last time, even though they will be back in 2 weeks. I think they thought we were lying? She (mother in law) is running a fever, coughing... I am kind of smiling. A little bit. How dumb are you? But the problem now is if G-Grandpa gets sick! I am going to be so mad! The only other good thing out of this is that a cousin is in the middle of moving here. (Another crazy druggy long story!) But she shows up in about 6 or so days. She will stay with G-Grandpa. Even though he does not want her to. He says, Totoro is fine taking care of him and cooking! I am grateful and at this point don't mind. But I am just so not surprised at mother in law... she is always sick. What was she thinking. She has also been calling all of the time, because husband has been a bit curt with her, after they blew us off a couple times because of their plans. I said flat out stop making them a priority. He actually is listening and gets it!!! And he sees it! We are important when they are bored or have nothing to do or when it fits their schedule... Well, hmmmpfh! I feel bad for laughing that she is sick. But I do hope G-Grandpa doe not get sick, he is old and frail.