Heather, if the fatigue has ANY component caused by nerves trying hard to get the message to the muscles, and muscles doing their utmost with what little nerve impulse they can get, then Mestinon WILL make a difference. But it won't be known how much, until you try it and work out how much is due to what.
Mestinon doesn't work by replacing the acetylcholine. It is a little more complicated than that. It works by stimulating the nerve terminals to produce more acetylcholine than they otherwise would, which should put things back to what it would be like if you did not have MG.
At a normal nerve terminal, the nerve signal races along, gets to the end and there is a gap - the synapse. To bridge the synapse the nerve terminal secretes acetylcholine. This bonds to acetylcholine receptors on the other side (could be another nerve or it could be a muscle fibre). Then the bonded receptors send the message along the next part of the trip, to eventually reach the destination.
In MG, there are antibodies slowly destroying the acetylchioline receptors. Fewer receptors mean the same amount of acetylcholine results in a weaker response. INI other words, you tell your body to lift that 10 Kg weight and your body responds with barely enough force to pull the skin off a rice pudding. The further the nerve signal has to travel (depending on whether the problem is systemic, or restricted to some parts of the body such as the eyes) then the more cumulative will be the perceived weakness, which some people also perceive as fatigue.
Once the acetylcholine has done its job bridging the gap, it gets broken down by the body and the components get resorbed back into the nerve terminal (via Ca++ channels) and recycled.
So numerous things can go wrong:
1) the receptors get destroyed (as in MG)
2) There can be problems with the Ca++ channels in the nerve terminal, so the nerve isn't able to release enough acetylcholine. If this were the problem there would be other, more widespread problems too, of the really weird variety (including some weird muscle spasms).
3) Other problems in reverse - the acetylcholine not getting broken down soon enough, so there is residual neurotransmitter re-triggering the nerve impulse. A lot of insect sprays work this way which is why flies die in convulsions. Also tell your kids that this is the mechanism that LSD uses - it blocks the breakdown of neurotransmitter in the brain, so what it does to your brain is what insect spray does to flies' muscles.
So to treat MG, they need to find a way to overcome the problems of increasing breakdown in neurotransmission.
Since MG is autoimmune in origin, chances are you have other autoimmune health issues. Treating one can help in other areas too, although treatment for MG with Mestinon is highly specific.
I realise, Heather, I'm probably not telling you anything you didn't know. But sometimes going over what you do know, can help you think of something you may have overlooked.
I do know that when mother in law's Mestinon isn't on board or she's late taking it, she does get a lot more fatigued. Your body has to work a lot harder to produce the same result, and that is tiring.
It will settle, as you adapt and the dosage gets stabilised.
Marg