tryingtobestrong
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Well, he quit IOP.... Said he wasn't getting anything out of it. He missed 3 times in the last 3 weeks and wasn't allowed to miss anymore.
Said he didn't have any friends that he hung with there... Funny, 2 weeks ago he went to the mall with the group, to lunch and to a game...
He said he wants to have a home group that he can go to for AA or CA and this way he can go to them.
Still self harming. still has the attitude, still punishing himself for how he treated his ex all those years and that she left him. Says his feelings are still the same after 6 months even with being sober..
I'm leaving this week to go with my daughter for a grad school interview and hope I can just focus on her and have a great time. He is in another state so it would just be him reaching out through text or calls. I don't want to deal with him. Last week he barely text me so I knew something was up.
Still talks about suicide and hating life.
I have done all I can. I wanted to tell him he has lied so many times about what he "will do" like volunteering and service work but I didn't. Should have I? I reminded him that he refused sober living but said he would do IOP and now he is quitting that.
Still is taking his naltrexone and antidepressants. Not sure if they will allow him to see the psychiatrist at the IOP since that is also where he did the residential treatment. If not, he will need to find a new one of them and they don't take insurance.
I'll keep giving it to God because that is all I can do.
Said he didn't have any friends that he hung with there... Funny, 2 weeks ago he went to the mall with the group, to lunch and to a game...
He said he wants to have a home group that he can go to for AA or CA and this way he can go to them.
Still self harming. still has the attitude, still punishing himself for how he treated his ex all those years and that she left him. Says his feelings are still the same after 6 months even with being sober..
I'm leaving this week to go with my daughter for a grad school interview and hope I can just focus on her and have a great time. He is in another state so it would just be him reaching out through text or calls. I don't want to deal with him. Last week he barely text me so I knew something was up.
Still talks about suicide and hating life.
I have done all I can. I wanted to tell him he has lied so many times about what he "will do" like volunteering and service work but I didn't. Should have I? I reminded him that he refused sober living but said he would do IOP and now he is quitting that.
Still is taking his naltrexone and antidepressants. Not sure if they will allow him to see the psychiatrist at the IOP since that is also where he did the residential treatment. If not, he will need to find a new one of them and they don't take insurance.
I'll keep giving it to God because that is all I can do.