Miss Magnolia
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I just found out my 23 year old sweet daughter deposited a check from her college (a refund of tuition) into her own checking account. She has a pretty significant learning disability and school is hard for her. She failed in her 3rd year and is living at home, working 6-7 days a week. Not at home much but that is normal. Planning to attend a local college to finish up and change her major.
In the past there have been unauthorized uses of the credit card but nothing too serious. She DID get a DUI last year and has been going to required classes and had a large fine to pay off. We paid for the lawyer and are expecting to be paid back.
This past week she has been on a Cruise with her former college friends which had been planned last year while she was still in school, and "all paid for" with money she apparently squirrelld away from what I had sent her.
Well when I found the check envelop I realized what had happened and was livid.
I called her and asked about this check and at first she said she did not know it was not hers as it had her name on it.
I asked he for her Bank account online user name and PW and at first she would not give it to me... Now I know that she used the money to buy her airfare to NY wich she siad she had already paid for.
I am at a loss.
I think this is stealing. She said she would give me the remaining money immediately and pay back the rest.
Help.
In the past there have been unauthorized uses of the credit card but nothing too serious. She DID get a DUI last year and has been going to required classes and had a large fine to pay off. We paid for the lawyer and are expecting to be paid back.
This past week she has been on a Cruise with her former college friends which had been planned last year while she was still in school, and "all paid for" with money she apparently squirrelld away from what I had sent her.
Well when I found the check envelop I realized what had happened and was livid.
I called her and asked about this check and at first she said she did not know it was not hers as it had her name on it.
I asked he for her Bank account online user name and PW and at first she would not give it to me... Now I know that she used the money to buy her airfare to NY wich she siad she had already paid for.
I am at a loss.
I think this is stealing. She said she would give me the remaining money immediately and pay back the rest.
Help.
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