How do you all make it thru the day living with these people? Our home feels like it's sitting on a cliff. It won't take much more for it to go over. I feel like I could explode. I need to escape, but I can't just leave my wife with him. My wife is still trying to blow things off and still doing the motherly things, vainly trying to make things better. How do I get rid of him? I've given up all hope of helping him. He seems to have smartened up enough that my hope of long-term jail soon enough seems slim. My thoughts are dark.