I finally did something just for me! I can't believe it! It was just an hour or so, an oasis, with a fountain softly bubbling, a hot cup of tea, and a nice lady who gave me a wonderful foot massage and pedicure while I was sitting in a massage chair! Just looking at my bright red toenails makes me smile. I feel stronger and better able to cope with Miss KT and life in general. Thanks to all of you who posted about the importance of taking care of yourself. That was something I'd neglected in my efforts to take care of everyone else.