timer lady
Queen of Hearts
I haven't been about for the last couple of weeks. There was an incident at school/day treatment involving one of kt's peers. This young man accused me of being racist (this accusation came after I asked said young man to no longer call the house). In group this peer blurted out that I'm a racist & kt felt the need to defend me.
I'm struggling with this situation because the group leader didn't stop this conversation immediately ~ the accusation was aimed at me, not at kt. Additionally, the young man was allowed to continue on & on in a very angry (& to kt threatening) matter that I asked him not to call because of the color of his skin. Apparently he was allowed to "explore" his anger toward me with kt in the room.
She's had 3 major dissociative states including Sunday night where I found kt cowering in the corner of the shower in a very infant like state.
ktbug has not been back to school since. I'm now struggling to find a "safe" environment for kt. SD is unwilling to support kt with a one on one para at a different setting. (Moving kt seems to be the only answer at this time ~ kt is terrified of this peer.) SD is threatening truancy charges if kt doesn't return to her "assigned & appropriate" placement I informed SD that kt's mental health was far more important than any truancy issues that may come out of this.
This is an insane situation ~ because I asked a young man to quit calling the house I have to move my difficult child to a different setting & young man has pulled the race card & gotten away with it. The card will never be put back in the deck again.
This stuff makes me nuts.
I'm struggling with this situation because the group leader didn't stop this conversation immediately ~ the accusation was aimed at me, not at kt. Additionally, the young man was allowed to continue on & on in a very angry (& to kt threatening) matter that I asked him not to call because of the color of his skin. Apparently he was allowed to "explore" his anger toward me with kt in the room.
She's had 3 major dissociative states including Sunday night where I found kt cowering in the corner of the shower in a very infant like state.
ktbug has not been back to school since. I'm now struggling to find a "safe" environment for kt. SD is unwilling to support kt with a one on one para at a different setting. (Moving kt seems to be the only answer at this time ~ kt is terrified of this peer.) SD is threatening truancy charges if kt doesn't return to her "assigned & appropriate" placement I informed SD that kt's mental health was far more important than any truancy issues that may come out of this.
This is an insane situation ~ because I asked a young man to quit calling the house I have to move my difficult child to a different setting & young man has pulled the race card & gotten away with it. The card will never be put back in the deck again.
This stuff makes me nuts.