husband doesn't get it. He totally clueless. After I spent the night at a friend's house because of the chaos and lack of respect here, we had a family mtng last night. I told everyone that this is it. You respect me now or there is no 2nd chance. This a.m., difficult child wakes up in a foul mood (as usual). husband calls on his way home from the gym to p/u easy child and difficult child for church. I had forewarned him on the ph that difficult child was in a very bad mood and wouldn't get out of bed. By the time husband got here, difficult child was actually up and at the table, eating (after having yelled at me and called me an idiot). I had placed strawberries, turkey bacon, juice and difficult child's pill in front of him. He refused to take the pill. husband stormed in like Mr Mean Guy, stalked up to the table and said, "Take your pill." difficult child: "I want cereal." Me: "No." husband: "Okay, what kind do you want?" Argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggh!!!!!!!!!!!!! We've got an appointment. with-Dr. Riley on Mon. As usual, easy child, difficult child, and I will be there. husband has a full schedule at work. Sigh.