DammitJanet
Well-Known Member
Tension is thick as a cloud in the house. We are speaking to each other as if we are polite strangers most of the time and other times its all out warfare. I am having great difficulty not just telling Tony point blank that I know he brought that stupid silver thing back from Bucks and that he is covering up for him. Its like an elephant in the room.
We are now not even sleeping together. This is like a complete slap in the face because I had suggested that we sleep in separate beds for months but he fought it over and over again. Then the day that he moved Buck out he came home and said he was going to sleep in "Bucks" room. Now ever since Cory and Mandy left our house, we put Keyana's toys in there and referred to it as "Keyana's" room and she slept in it when she was here. So for him to now refer to it as Bucks room just galled me. The entire time Buck was here I called it Keyana's room.
So every night Tony comes home from work, eats dinner, watches a little tv with me in the family room and then goes off to sleep in the other bedroom. I see him for maybe an hour.
Last night he came home ranting about how Cory is on his last nerve and how if Cory says one more thing to him at work he is going to fire Cory. Blah blah blah. I have to control Cory. That I am the only reason Cory is working for him. Blah blah blah. Now before Buck went to work with Tony he had no problems with Cory. I can only imagine what its like for Cory there because if I had to be with Tony and Buck for 15 hours a day in a working environment? I would lose my mind too. But Tony is going to take Bucks side because Cory is louder. Cory has always had that problem where he is the one who goes off. Buck causes the problem but he does it behind Tony's back. Of course if I say anything about this, I get yelled at. I wish Tony could put one of them on another crew. Put Buck on Jerome's crew. He wouldnt last a week.
So last night I was threatened with having to become a psychiatrist to manage to improve Cory's mood problems. I was ordered to fix him. Yeah Im magic and my doctorate degree came this week. Personally I think Tony needs more work than Cory does. When I try to complain to Cory about Buck, he shuts me down and tells me it will be okay and just gives me a hug. Tony cant even do that.
If Tony fires Cory, there will be problems and I will be mad. I knew from the minute he hired Buck that it would play out like this. I think I probably posted it. If it comes down, our relationship will be over. Tony says that I have always picked Cory but thats not true. He has now taken the time to pick his brother over me completely and I have had it.
We are now not even sleeping together. This is like a complete slap in the face because I had suggested that we sleep in separate beds for months but he fought it over and over again. Then the day that he moved Buck out he came home and said he was going to sleep in "Bucks" room. Now ever since Cory and Mandy left our house, we put Keyana's toys in there and referred to it as "Keyana's" room and she slept in it when she was here. So for him to now refer to it as Bucks room just galled me. The entire time Buck was here I called it Keyana's room.
So every night Tony comes home from work, eats dinner, watches a little tv with me in the family room and then goes off to sleep in the other bedroom. I see him for maybe an hour.
Last night he came home ranting about how Cory is on his last nerve and how if Cory says one more thing to him at work he is going to fire Cory. Blah blah blah. I have to control Cory. That I am the only reason Cory is working for him. Blah blah blah. Now before Buck went to work with Tony he had no problems with Cory. I can only imagine what its like for Cory there because if I had to be with Tony and Buck for 15 hours a day in a working environment? I would lose my mind too. But Tony is going to take Bucks side because Cory is louder. Cory has always had that problem where he is the one who goes off. Buck causes the problem but he does it behind Tony's back. Of course if I say anything about this, I get yelled at. I wish Tony could put one of them on another crew. Put Buck on Jerome's crew. He wouldnt last a week.
So last night I was threatened with having to become a psychiatrist to manage to improve Cory's mood problems. I was ordered to fix him. Yeah Im magic and my doctorate degree came this week. Personally I think Tony needs more work than Cory does. When I try to complain to Cory about Buck, he shuts me down and tells me it will be okay and just gives me a hug. Tony cant even do that.
If Tony fires Cory, there will be problems and I will be mad. I knew from the minute he hired Buck that it would play out like this. I think I probably posted it. If it comes down, our relationship will be over. Tony says that I have always picked Cory but thats not true. He has now taken the time to pick his brother over me completely and I have had it.