ant is due to go to state pen october 17. he has been working daily but drunk nightly. he went to a Lynryd Skynrd concert last weekend and is still on a bender with multiple women coming and going. other than that, for this week only-- he and Kaleb, boyfriend and another difficult child are staying at my house. they are working a big roof job near me and since I live an hour from ant's place, the whole lot of them are here. ant brought along the other difficult child to help with the roof. the other difficult child is 27 and a coke head-struggling this week with anxiety and constant motion as he is drug free not by choice here. he has an 18 mo old baby girl he is not allowed to see and shows her pictures to us. I am running a "feed em and send em to work with boyfriend daily" house. this morning ant crawled into bed and slept with Kaleb. other than that, he plays with him a bit and cannot even seem to remember how to bathe him anymore. Kaleb asks for me to put him to bed, and sits with me and boyfriend. I have to get Kaleb to go sit with his dad as he seems to be more detached from him. Kaleb has been here 10 dys or so, his mom never even calls. he was to go back today but she said she is too tired. (I am ok with that) ant is very huggy with me and even did the dishes last night. he asked if he can live here til he goes but I said no. he has to live at his own apartment. I do feel sorry for him. I guess I do not believe that his 4th DUI warrants a one to two yr sentence at the state pen. it doesnt make sense. I wish oh wish they had an appropriate way to deal with this, perhaps work release, or some other way. then again, he knew the consequence and did the deed anyway...like usual. he wants his fav dinner tonight...stuffed peppers...so I will make them.