So, I'm the Dad of a 19 yo difficult child son. I've lost hope that its going to get any better. I expect years of continued lying, stealing, & guilt tripping to be the new normal. We live in a rural area where everyone knows everyone (and what they do). It drives me insane that my family name has been ruined by his actions. I'm thinking of moving the family (even if he tags along) so my parents and in-laws don't have to deal with this on a day to day basis. Has anyone made the move to alleviate these external issues and to strengthen the remainder of the family?