virginiabreeze
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I just extended an invitation to my sister to visit me in Virginia, or if she prefer, I could visit her in Texas. Hopefully she'll 'bite' and we can make something happen soon.
I have a feeling it will be hard for me to see her in so much pain. And I will have to consciously make a point to hold myself back and try to be just a supportive 'ear'. My other sisters have been more involved in this, and they warned me not to get sucked in. They have tried to give advice and support and now they arent on speaking terms. She is so sick of everyones advice. We all mean well, but our good intentions haven't gone over well. I think the thing my sister hates to hear the most is "Snap out of it" "Just let it go", etc. Those things are much easier to say than do. How do you let your child go?? I need to stop telling my sister that her daughter will 'grow out of it' - that probably sucks to hear too. And when I talk about my son that just makes her cry
I have a feeling it will be hard for me to see her in so much pain. And I will have to consciously make a point to hold myself back and try to be just a supportive 'ear'. My other sisters have been more involved in this, and they warned me not to get sucked in. They have tried to give advice and support and now they arent on speaking terms. She is so sick of everyones advice. We all mean well, but our good intentions haven't gone over well. I think the thing my sister hates to hear the most is "Snap out of it" "Just let it go", etc. Those things are much easier to say than do. How do you let your child go?? I need to stop telling my sister that her daughter will 'grow out of it' - that probably sucks to hear too. And when I talk about my son that just makes her cry