Dear Suz,
I can only imagine just how emotionally/mentally/physically exhausted you must be.
And I can see how you most likely have recollected on Rob's whole life...looking back on him having his first friend and now so many by his bedside in time of need. How comforting it must be that there are so many that love your son.
What you have experienced I am somewhat relating too. My oldest difficult child has just recently aquired a motorcycle. He too has not transfered title yet, no MC license, no insurance on it and no helmet. He HAS been driving it...well that is up until a week ago when it, TTL, broke down on the side of the road.
I wish we could control the choices they make at this stage.
My heartfelt prayers will continue going out to you and Rob.
I think it is already such a miracle that Rob is home. I hope he will give up some of his difficult child stubborness to accept dr's orders. It seems to be so hard for our difficult child's to recognize when others know best...
I hope you will be able to get some rest at some point. You've been through alot of trauma yourself and I'm sure it will take time to recover.
Know that our hearts and prayers good healing thoughts are with you all.
with love,
Tammy