So, husband called Dr. P. our old psychiatrist. Who is the greatest psychiatrist in my opinion!!! (Why do we have her direct #?, and why is a woman this important able pick it up on the 3rd ring and talk to my husband???) Yet the rest of the darn psychiatrist'S in this country can't figure it out??? Back to my confusion, so she informed husband that she is now at this point so heavy into her research for kids and working on possibilities for our kids that she is in the lab every day except Tuesday's... and on Tuesday's she is only updating. So husband filled her in. She said, she doesn't think Lamictal is a good medication for difficult child 1, and with her symptoms she thinks she needs to be on Lithium. She feels until we can get her on that to go with a higher dose of Abilify add back the Cogentin and move to Tucson... She loves Tucson, feels they have a wonderful medical system in place and available. Also gave us a name of someone... She does not like Pheonix... LOL So now I don't know what to do with this? We can not just up and move, we are working on it. Do I tell new psychiatrist...do we Difficult Child Lamictal, I didn't understand why she didn't like the Lamictal? difficult child 1 was like this prior to starting the Lamictal... I think maybe she doesn't think Lamictal is "right" for her symptoms? Hmmm Oh what to do... I just want to get the stupid IEP started and find a Pre-school for difficult child 2 and a babysitter... oh the list!