Old Friends........I need support please.

Discussion in 'Substance Abuse' started by DDD, Jan 29, 2013.

  1. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    It is not "life or death"...in fact, it isn't even physical. If I were a gun owner...GFGmom would be a goner and I'm not exaggerating. This is going to be short because I am SO upset. easy child/difficult child's house is to close in less than four weeks. The final SS backpay check is available to me with two weeks notice.

    I want to barf! I just opened a letter from SS that tells me "since he received disability between 2008 and 2012........he is not eligible for the amount we are counting on and NEED to close. GFGmom has evidently struck again. I am sick. I will start my day at the SS office and I will press charges against her. There is no other possible explanation. I'm trying not to rush to judgement. Holy Cow. I am in shock.
    Please send support my way because truly I am a non violent person who is feeling blankin' violent. DDD
  2. AnnieO

    AnnieO Shooting from the Hip

    WTH?! I'm here... And I'm glad she's nowhere near me...
  3. recoveringenabler

    recoveringenabler Well-Known Member Staff Member

    I am so so very sorry DDD. That is so darn frustrating after all the incredible hard work you put into this. Perhaps it's not GFGmom, maybe a stupid bureaucratic glitch? Geez, I hope so, then you can fix it. I am sending you truckloads of support, love, peaceful feelings, comfort, good vibes, bead rattling and prayers that this is an easy, easy fix. So many hugs to you DDD......................
  4. lovemysons

    lovemysons Well-Known Member

    Oh DDD,

    I sure as heck hope she isn't involved and hope this is just some kind of error.
    Oh my...I can imagine how upset you are!

    I am here sending you all the most positive vibes I can!!!

  5. rejectedmom

    rejectedmom New Member

    Oh dear I am so sorry that this has happened I know how much you wanted easy child/difficult child settled. -RM
  6. Hopeless

    Hopeless ....Hopeful Now

    No this is not good. Praying it is just and error and not her doing. Hugs and lots of good thoughts coming your way.
  7. Karenvm

    Karenvm Member

    Wow. Unbelievable. So sorry you have to add this to your plate!
  8. Signorina

    Signorina Guest

    Hugs and prayers
  9. buddy

    buddy New Member

    Adding my prayers that it is just a mistake. Any way to prove HE never got it? I hope they can sort it out. You sure as heck didn't need this. I'd wanna knock her block off too.
  10. Calamity Jane

    Calamity Jane Well-Known Member

    All I can say is Wow. I hope it's an error. Many hugs of support to you - hang in there DDD.
  11. Sheila

    Sheila Moderator

    Oh, gosh! Didn't she do something similar a good while back?

    Hope the info received is an error. :( :(

    Don't you just want to choke their gizzard out sometimes!! &$&(!?&"&)x!
  12. InsaneCdn

    InsaneCdn Well-Known Member

    Sending you my best rhino skin (newly cleaned) and my brand new warrior mom armour, as I know yours are well worn, and you probably need all the help you can get.

    Also sending... clear-headedness and logic.
    And lots of hope for a level-headed person at the SS office...
  13. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Thanks for the support. It's the wee hours and I just woke up. easy child/difficult child did not do it. Thursday we put up 10% amd I write a check for $350 for home inspectors. Whether it is SS or GFGmom I don't see how it can be resolved in a day.
    Thanks for the fresh armor mine is battle wearied and has weaknesses. Don't worry I won't go obviously nuts but I will press charges against her and hope there is payback. Yeah...she collected disability for the eight years difficult child#2 lived with us and never contributed a cent to his support plus she collected child support for easy child/difficult child and difficult child#2 with-o giving a cent. She is a piece of work. This...if she did it...is the total worst. Cross your fingers a gov't worker just made a mistake that can be fixed asap. Doubtful but I'm hoping and praying. DDD
  14. donna723

    donna723 Well-Known Member

    Oh DDD, I am so sorry this has happened, and after all the hard work you put in on it for him! If she really did this, you have every right to be furious at her! I'll keep my fingers crossed that it's some type of error but it sure does sound like something she would do! Sending lots and lots of hugs.
  15. HaoZi

    HaoZi CD Hall of Fame

    Hoping it's just an error and can be fixed quickly!
  16. SuZir

    SuZir Well-Known Member

    OMG! I hope it is an error.
  17. Nancy

    Nancy Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Oh DDD you know you have my full support. Sending many many hopeful thoughts that this gets worked out my friend.
  18. buddy

    buddy New Member

    Is there any hope the deal can be put on hold, they have your money already right?
  19. trinityroyal

    trinityroyal Well-Known Member

    Oh DDD, I too hope it's a glitch and not GFGmom antics. That said, I hope those can be sorted out quickly if that is the case.
    Sending my rhino skin as a backup to IC's, and some polish for the warrior mom armour to make it extra shiny and tough.

    What a mess, and yes, I want to throttle her too!
  20. rejectedmom

    rejectedmom New Member

    If she did this, she is in deep DOODOO. SS fraud carries stiff penalties. And you know what she deserves them! -RM