I knew he had done this, which shows just how detached Goneboy was from the idea of us as his family, but I didnt know the specifics until today. I am visiting Princess and Baby and she said "I dont know if I ever told you this...it made me feel too weird...but....Goneboy asked me to marry him once." I told her she had and she asked "Did I tell you how?" I said I wasnt sure I wanted to know. She laughed and was lighthearted and none of us feel connected to Goneboy anymore so she told me. I am paraphrasing. "I think he felt desperate to get married. He was near thirty. I was going out with SO, but still living in his basement and we had nothing in common but we still did things together. So one day he sat me down and said 'we are not really related because we are adopted.' I tried to interupt, but he repeated it and said,"I think we should get married. I would have no trouble changing my last name. I think it would be a good thing." I had never heard the part about changing his last name. Neither has my ex whose last name he was so willing to change and who adores him. I said,"Seriously???" She said "id never tell Dad. He wouldnt believe me anyway. So I told Goneboy that I am his sister and that this is never going to happen. It was sick." She moved out with SO shortly after. Goneboy, after that, had two girlfriends in a row and married the first woman who said yes. She was the one who conspired with him to dump us all, but clearly he was unattached way before she came along. We were people he had lived with, but not his family. Who proposes to his sister???? I wish I had known the story entirely early on. It would have been a clue to the future. I would maybe have seen it coming. I asked Princess if he ever said he loved her that way and she laughed and said,"No, mom. He would never have said that. He was a robot." She always told me he had no emotions and she knew him best, but he presented as having emotions to us. Maybe it was an act to us, but he was with Princess more than any of us. She maintains he was robotic. Im sure his wife doesnt know he did this. I meanly want to throw it in her face to shock her, but would never do it. She was so mean about help keeping us from him. If she only knew...but she wont. It is too bad. Yes, I know I sound bitter. I am sorry and will not act on it.