Today was the day when my father, who I have been close to my entire life, told me that I was signing my son's death certificate today. DS,who is 20 got his third and last chance with a judge yesterday to complete community service. My mother has begged me to give him several chances, and again, last night I agreed to take DS to community service every day until he completed it. He again gave an excuse not to go again this morning, and I told him I would not be taking him anymore After I got to work I texts him that I would take him to your the afternoon session and he choose to be angry with me and not g, instead went out to hang out with a friend. I text him (this has been going on for for over a year) that if he didn't go he would not be welcome in the our home again. He chose to leave. My parents came over to help make sure I was safe while he was picking up his things, and my father, who was in the attorney general's office his entire career told me that he would go to jail if he didn't complete community service and I was signing his death warrant by making him leave I am heartbroken on so many fronts ..