21 year old difficult child. He was such a good kid until high school. He is very personable and charming. Was in all advanced classes but rarely got the grades he was capable of. He did cross country running throughout his school years. He never really had a 'best' friend but did have a group he hung out with. They were a smart group of kids that have all consequently done well in college. He rallied to get into a good college and basically dropped out after the first year but what bothers me the most are the lies that we are sure to find out; like actually being in school, enrolling in summer school, running in a half marathon, having a job. I signed a two year apartment lease for him (by his former university - I pay) before I realized the extent of his lies and I'm letting him stay there. I expected he would get a job and pay expenses but he is not doing that. He went to a psychiatrist for three sessions but stopped. Then he lied about seeing a psychologist. This site has made me see that for a year I have enabled him and done him no favors. I'm going to tell him that the support, that was supposed to be for when he was in school, is over. I'm glad I found this site.