So today I was on Facebook and I have difficult child as a friend. I noticed she has been trying to sell a printer online. This was probably the second or third post I had seen but all the other stuff was for little items. I was concerned she might be meeting with strangers to buy the stuff and thought I would give her a call about being safe. Just to be nosey I pulled up the Facebook page first and saw she has the brand new laptop we got her for college on there for sale. I was NOT happy. We are still paying for the dang thing!!! Its a freaking 1500$ computer. Anyway I called difficult child and it didn't go well. I guess I should have started the convo a little better instead of saying "what is going on?" She immediately ripped into me about calling my brother and telling him about her decision to drop out. I explained that I didn't do that her father did. I also explained that he only did it because his conversation with her was so negative he wanted her to have someone she liked to talk to. He thought my brother would be a good person since she and he have a good relationship. Lets just say things went downhill from there. She got mad because her father had transfered the money she was blowing out of her savings account without asking her first. I explained he was concerned because of her anger towards him and the GI BIll that she might blow it and then have to pay it back. I explained that we were simply trying to keep her from going into debt. That we support her decision to move and that we love her we just didn't want her to go into debt so early in life. As usual I got the whole don't contact me and the BIO Dad is more caring than you are spiel. She said a lot of angry hurtful things. Told me to shut up and then hung up on me. I immediately decided it was time to wash my hands of this. I am done! I transfered the money back to her savings, stopped her alotment every two weeks and texted her to let her know. Now to figure out what else to do to make this stop. I sent her a text letting her know her money was back in her savings and that we were stopping the allotment. Within minutes I got the call demanding to know why we stopped the allotment. I said the allotment was based off of you speaking to us and treating us with respect since you no longer want to speak with us and are obviously not going to be respectful I turned it off. difficult child then went on and on about how I am so overdramatic! LOL I discussed it with her father last night and we are going to make a decision about the allotment together. Oh yeah and remember how I doubted that the boyfriend she was going to be moving in with knew about all this stuff? Guess what I am pretty sure he was in the car with her and heard the conversation. Which means she didn't go back to school after the weekend and stayed with him. I don't think he liked what he heard because I immediately got a text saying "You ruined my relationship" "the one thing that makes me happy and you ruined it." Nope she ruined it by acting like an ass and being irrational. Anyway I just replied "i.m sorry" and left it at that.