I don't know if it's just because I'm tired (from work, from travelling, from worrying about getting this house sold so I can move on with my LIFE, of difficult child) but I've had a crying spell with no provocation. difficult child texted me on Sunday and asked for gas money. I didn't respond. 4 hours later, he texts "I guess not, thanks anyway" Monday, I get a text from a friend of mine of two posts difficult child made on FB - one selling a Coach bag, and 1 selling two Dooney wristlets. Of course, these are not mine- he has no access to my things- but this means he's selling his girlfriend's stuff. I have no idea if she knows. I don't know that I care. Even if she does, I think it is sad. My daughter was also sent those posts (because she and I are both blocked by him) by others and she sent him a text. I told her to not do that- but the damage was done. Let him BE. Who cares? Don't CREATE drama. It's not that I'm walking on egg shells with him- but rather, disconnecting from him and the drama that he brings. She sees it as 'catering' to him and not calling him out on his $&%@. Then he posts that he's been on his own since he was 17, so f&$@ family. Wow? Why does this offend me? This is WHO HE IS. /sigh. Up to this point, difficult child has still been on my cell phone plan- well, Tuesday- I get a text from him that he's going to transfer his number to his girlfriend's plan. To look for a call from TMobile. Interesting. And WONDERFUL. So they call, they have his girlfriend on 3 way (mind you, I've never met her, never seen her, etc)- I'm glad. More power to them. I think I'm rambling...but just need encouragement right now.